Biblical Sexuality started with God creating humans, male and female, in His image. “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27 NIV)
Biblical Sexuality started when God gave sexuality in marriage as a gift. There is no shame in marriage sexuality. Biblical sexuality in a Christian Marriage is between one man and one woman. “The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.’ For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.” (Genesis 2:23-25 NIV)
Our first parents, Adam and Eve, rebelled against God, at the urging of Satan, and sin entered the world (Gen 3:1-14). This fall from God has brought a disconnect to our relationship with God and each other. Since then, all humans have been born into sin and cannot save themselves.
MarriedHeat.com believes that Jesus Christ, God’s own son, was sent to save the world from the fall into sin by taking our sin on himself. Jesus suffered the pain of the sins of all mankind, died on the cross, and was buried in a grave. He suffered all sin for us so that we might have a renewed relationship with God. “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.” (2 Corinthians 5:21 NIV)
MarriedHeat.com believes that God raised Jesus from the dead and that Jesus ascended to sit victoriously at the right hand of God, the Father. He now rules all things and the Holy Spirit has been sent to inspire those faithful to Christ’s laws in this world. “Therefore, God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” (Philippians 2:9-11 NIV)
What does that mean for marriage?
Christ has saved and redeemed the married to live in the fullness of blessed monogamy. He wants us to stay faithful in our marriage vows as you submit yourself to Christ. He has given us the gift of sexuality to be practiced between a man and a woman. Biblical Sexuality encourages that all honor the marriage bed and the practices of sexuality be kept exclusive between husband and wife. (Hebrews 12:4)
MarriedHeat.com also believes that we need to take responsibility to ignite and fuel our marriage as our goal to please and serve God. Both husband and wife are asked not to hold anything back from each other. “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” (1 Corinthians 7:5 NIV) Biblical Sexuality is to be practiced faithfully.
MarriedHeat.com believes that Biblical sexuality is to be cultivated into a blessing. Both husband and wife have responsibilities to bring the entirety of their souls to make this blessing of God a blessing for each other.
- For a healthy husband, it means that he is to take responsibility to meet the romantic, emotional and sexual needs of his wife. (Ephesians 5:28)
- For a healthy wife, it means that she is to take responsibility to meet the romantic, emotional and sexual needs of her husband. (Ephesians 5:22)
Together the two literally become “one flesh”. Out of that team, the husband and wife serve and love God. That team has the potential to raise children to know and serve the Lord. This team has been given the gift of Biblical sexuality and the joy of passionate marriage heat.
This Biblical Sexuality website seeks to ignite more marriage passion, supporting your journey toward a lifetime of sustainable and blessed monogamy. We believe that it is appropriate to encourage Christians to ignite their passion for each other. We are impressed by the fact that an entire book in the Bible, Song of Songs, or Song of Solomon, is ancient marriage erotica that supported marriages thousands of years ago. Our guidelines for stories and submission owe its inspiration from this book of the Bible. Biblical sexuality has been revealed to husbands and wives.
Sexuality is very controversial today. We judge no one’s journey. We want to affirm, in a fresh and enthusiastic way, that Christ is Lord, even of sexuality. This gift is worth developing for our pleasure as man and wife for the glory of God.
We seek to be balanced and withhold judgment in our guidelines, but we do not waver from these core beliefs. We understand that people express their language of marriage sexuality in both street language and language sensitive to their upbringings. We understand that some religious backgrounds believe certain things are off limits and other things are acceptable.
For that reason, we have created a category to help each user find the stories that appeal to them. If you see a story that is in the [ L ] category, be advised that the language of the story may be harsher than what you believe appropriate for a “Biblical Sexuality” site. We mean no offense to anyone, while at the same time, we do not wish to offend those who use that language in their loving relationships. If that language offends you, please avoid stories in that category.
We will not be able to meet all expectations when concerning language and/or appropriate behaviors. Our goal is to be a blessing to Christian marriages. We will attempt to keep a healthy balance in areas of freedom and conviction. “Everything is permissible” — but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible” — but not everything is constructive (1 Corinthians 10:23 NIV). We will try to find that balance, but we ask that you only read and submit stories that will encourage you in being faithful to your spouse and faithful to your God.
Please pray that marriedHeat.com will ignite more marriage joy for all Christians and those of other faiths as well.