What’s the FAVORITE thing your Hubby does when Going Down on You? Men can be thick, right? They don’t take hints. You must be direct to get what you want. When it comes to sex, men and women alike are insecure to some degree. Our insecurities sometimes keep us from fully enjoying all the orgasmic pleasures that God intended for us to have. Why? Because we’re afraid to speak up and let our spouse know exactly what we want. Here’s your chance to tell your husband what YOU want without saying a word to him. Take the poll. This poll is unique in that we provide NONE of the answers for you. Any answers you see were submitted by other women. Continue Reading →
She told me to put my left hand on her throat, I did, but of course did not squeeze. Just as I told her I was about to climax, she told me to spank her ass. I hesitated, and she commanded me to slap it hard. I did as instructed. I immediately started over the edge as her cheek was turning pink to red with her spankings and she was moaning like I had never heard before. I came with force. Continue Reading →
How I wish we would have discussed sex. Church leaders fail far too often in dealing with single teens and engaged couples when it comes to Godly sex. They’re really good at teaching the sinful nature of unmarried sex. A lot of that teaching, however, moves into the marriage bed, leading to severe sexual dysfunction and unhappiness. Heather and I were worlds apart sexually.
Understand that God doesn’t simply want you to enjoy sex, God expects you to enjoy sex. Often. With variety and gusto. God is very clear on sexual taboos. Sexual acts between husband and wife are not among His taboos. Once you take your spouse into your private bedroom and turn the lock, find what works and make it work. The only requirement is BE RESPECTFUL to your spouse. Continue Reading →
Communication is the key to a great marriage. Open Talk should begin before looking into the eyes of your soon-to-be spouse and saying, “I DO”. Click to take our “Communication” Poll. Continue Reading →
I will never defend porn as an answer to marital or intimate difficulties as I know the destructive effects it brings to marriage. However, the one thing that is never or rarely addressed is one of the reasons men turn to porn. Perhaps knowing the workings of the male mind could help wives better understand what men crave.
Porn gives men the hope that their wife can have ONE trait of the women in the videos; SEXUAL DESIRE for her man. Aside from all the sex, perfect bodies, multiple orgasms, and beautiful women, the underlying magnetism of porn is it feeds a man’s need to be sexually desired, even in a proxy role. Continue Reading →
Dirty talk is the quickest way to take sexy time from hot to SUPER hot. But sometimes, the right word is just out of reach. Then you’re just bumbling and rambling awkwardly instead of kicking things up a notch.
Some people can wing it, but not everyone is naughty by nature when it comes to talking dirty. Here are 50 words to keep at the tip of your tongue so you never have that problem again: Continue Reading →
Are we really too busy doing dishes to participate in an activity that is so good it has inspired genius (that saucy Shakespeare) and changed history (Okay, Helen of Troy, we get it. You were super hot)? My goodness, what a crazy way to live. Ladies, did it ever occur to you (to us!) that we should have sex because WE DESERVE IT?
Yeah, you deserve it.
So, tonight put the kids to bed. Leave the dishes in the sink and the floors unswept. They will wait. Take a moment to remember that you are the girl you hoped you would be and then go find that boy and remind him that he is the man you knew he could be. Continue Reading →
It’s National Orgasm Day today, and though it might seem like a simple PR stunt from a sex toy company (and a perfect opportunity for a plethora of penis jokes), a lot of anxiety and stress can arise from the issue. We can place so much importance on trying to achieve orgasm at the same time as a partner, or how good the orgasm will be, that we often forget about enjoying the sensations of touch and sexual pleasure throughout the whole lovemaking experience. After all, no one goes to a concert to hear the last few notes! Continue Reading →
When it comes to our bed and being naked, most of us will only slip out of our pajamas and into our birthday suit when we’re turning up the heat in the bedroom. After a bit of getting down under the sheets, followed by canoodling, we grab the closest clothes and cover up, but experts say this is a bad habit.
Although several scientific studies stress our sleepwear can negatively affect our quality of sleep, and overall health, only 10 percent of Americans make it a habit to sleep nude. Sleeping naked provides several health benefits for our body, ranging from an improved hormonal balance and mood to better sex. Continue Reading →
So, there you have it. You have no excuse for wearing clothes in bed any longer. The best way to keep a marriage happy is to sleep naked, a study suggests. Continue Reading →